Whenever I see around, I see at least one person having cellphone stuck to their ear, and they seem to just go on and on with anyone they talk to. And that makes me ask myself, am I weird? Or am out of place? Or something like that.. Because I think out of everyone I have ever met or seen, I am the only one who wants to avoid phone calls, as much as possible! Its not that I don't want to be in touch with my dear ones. But somehow, phone calls make me kind of nervous, with me thinking what would I talk of or what would I say etc. I do attend calls I get thinking that it might hurt my dear ones if I avoid, but I don't even remember the last time I made a vague call to anyone. I can chat all day long on internet, or text, or emails. But calling is something I am never comfortable with. I can communicate better in writing, when comes to speaking I am always falling short of words. I know it is not right, I should know to communicate verbally because writing cannot help in most of cases. Now, I really feel I need to work on it, and so I am going to repeat this to myself : "Calling isn't tough." Hopefully it works.
Can anyone give me some tips to help with this?